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Legendary Freedom Fighter Bhagat Singh’s Jail Diary Reveals That He Had a Passion for Poetry!

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Freedom fighter Bhagat Singh's jail diary reveals him to be an avid reader, thinker, and writer with a passion for poetry.
“My life has been dedicated to the noblest cause, that of the freedom of the country. Therefore, there is no rest or worldly desire that can lure me now.”
These were the words that a resolute 19-year-old Bhagat Singh, the revolutionary freedom fighter for India's independence from the British, left behind in a letter when he ran away from his home in Lyallpur (now in Pakistan) to avoid getting married.

Born on September 28, 1907, Bhagat Singh was sentenced to death in the Lahore conspiracy case, along with other freedom fighters Rajguru and Sukhdev.

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Seeking revenge for the death of Lala Lajpat Rai, Bhagat Singh had assassinated John Saunders, the British police officer responsible for the lathi charge on the senior freedom fighter. Soon after, Singh and fellow revolutionary, Batukeshwar Dutt, threw two bombs and leaflets inside the Central Legislative Assembly before offering themselves up for arrest. These were the two charges that were clubbed together by the British Raj as the Lahore conspiracy case. In the last two years of his life in jail, Bhagat Singh and his comrades fought one of the most celebrated court battles in the annals of India's national liberation struggle. Other than using the court as a vehicle for the propagation of his revolutionary message, he also put the spotlight on the inhuman conditions political prisoners faced in colonial jails.

And though he died young (he was only 24 when he was executed), his unwavering resolve and heroism made him an icon and figure of inspiration for generations to come.

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All this is well-known. What is not so well-known is that Bhagat Singh wrote four books in jail. Although they were smuggled out, they were destroyed and are lost forever. What survived was a diary that the young martyr kept in jail, full of notes, poems and jottings from what he was reading. It was written between September 1929 and March 1931, and was passed on to Bhagat Singh’s family after his death. The recently released book, The Jail Notebook And Other Writings, traces the sole surviving scripts written by Bhagat Singh while he was in jail. In sharp contrast to his popular image as a gun-toting revolutionary, the writings reveal the patriot’s scholarly leanings and love for poetry. A voracious reader, Bhagat Singh managed to procure during his imprisonment a large number of selected works of prominent authors of his choice. He spent a lot of his time reading and making copious notes on what he read while he awaited execution in jail. His interests included both political and non-political subjects, and his favourite authors were Bernard Shaw, Bertrand Russell, Charles Dickens, Rousseau, Marx, Rabindranath Tagore, Lala Lajpat Rai, William Wordsworth, Omar Khayyam, Mirza Ghalib, and Ramananda Chatterjee.

Bhagat Singh's 404-page jail diary is filled with excerpts, notes and quotes on a wide variety of subjects that reflect not only his serious study and intellectual insight, but also his social and political concerns.

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Ranging from topics like capitalism and socialism to criminology and legal jurisprudence, his diary is a clear indication of how well read and well informed the young Bhagat Singh was -  in sharp contrast to the 'trigger happy terrorist' the British Raj portrayed him to be. Here are a few glimpses of the original thoughts and poems jotted down by him during his jail days.
"I am a man and all that affects mankind concerns me" "Every tiny molecule of ash is in motion with my heat. I am such a lunatic that I am free even in jail." "Lovers, lunatics and poets are made of same stuff.” "…by crushing individuals, they cannot kill ideas." "The sanctity of law can be maintained only so long as it is the expression of the will of the people." "If the deaf are to hear, the sound has to be very loud. When we dropped the bomb, it was not our intention to kill anybody. We have bombed the British Government. The British must quit India and make her free." "Social progress depends not upon the ennoblement of the few but on the enrichment of democracy. Universal brotherhood can be achieved only when there is an equality of opportunity – of opportunity in social, political and individual life.” “Give me liberty or death – is life so dear or peace so sweet as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery?" "Life is lived on its own…other’s shoulders are used only at the time of funeral."
On page 24 of his diary, Bhagat Singh quotes Francisco Ferrer, a Spanish educator who was executed after the Barcelona riots in 1909. The words reflect his repugnance for self-serving politics and personality cults.
"I also wish my friends to speak little or not at all, because idols are created when men are praised and it's not good for the human race. Acts alone, no matter by whom committed, ought to be studied, praised or blamed. "I desire that on no occasion, whether near or remote, nor for any reason whatsoever so, shall demonstration of a political or religious character be made before my remains, as I consider the time devoted to the dead would be better employed in improving the condition of the living."
In another quote, Bhagat Singh bemoans the menace of child labour by quoting Charlotte Perkins Gilman's poem, Child Labour, on page 33 of his diary.
"No fledgling feeds the father-bird, No chicken feeds the hen, No kitten mouses for the cat, This glory is for men We are the wisest strongest race, Long may our praise be sung, The only animal alive That feeds upon its young"
A window into the thoughts of the young charismatic revolutionary who was far ahead of his time, the diary also puts forth Bhagat Singh's vision of an inclusive, just and better world. Get the book here.
Also Read: TBI Blogs: Remembering Chunibhai Vaidya, the Hero Freedom Fighter Who Helped 352 Villages Get Water

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TBI Blogs: Is Your Old Wedding Dress Collecting Dust? Now It Can Make a Rural Bride’s Dream Come True!

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Weddings can often drive families in rural India to financial ruin. This innovative initiative is reusing old wedding dresses to curb wedding expenses. "I do not think about life, my struggle is to get one square meal a day. I have no idea how I will fund my daughter's wedding. I have no steady source of income and the worry gives me sleepless nights," says Radhika, a worried mother from the Dungi village in Uttarkashi. Her daughter was getting ready to get married in the next few days. Radhika’s husband died four years ago, leaving her to fend for herself and their two kids. She struggled to make ends meet and was only able to educate her daughter till Class 12, and her son till Class 10. With the widow pension she received amounting to nothing, Radhika soon took to working as a daily wage labourer on farms. She earned just enough to keep the family afloat. When her daughter's marriage was fixed, anxiety plagued Radhika, as concerns about funding her daughter's wedding grew, day by day.

While weddings are about celebrating two individuals and families coming together, for most families in rural India, they spell financial burden.

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In villages across India, where peoples' actions are dictated by the intangible concepts of 'honour' and 'dignity,' weddings celebrations can often wreck financial hell in the lives of many. An old saying rightly says, 'There is no end to how much you can spend on a wedding or on constructing a house.' That’s why Goonj, an award winning voluntary organisation, decided to deliver Wedding Kits, made from wedding apparel and other new material collected from urban India, to women and families like Radhika's in rural India.

A typical Wedding Kit includes the wedding dress for the bride and bridegroom, general clothing, footwear, purse, makeup box, cosmetics, jewelry, bed sheets and a set of utensils.

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The initiative is a classic example of how small things can make a big difference. Goonj first collects the wedding apparel from cities and carefully sorts them out. It then puts together a collection of new, fancier clothes by modifying the material donated. The organisation does due diligence about the economic condition of the recipient families, and then distributes the Wedding Kits through the local Panchayats, giving rural brides and bridegrooms, as well as their families, the chance to wear new clothes and accessories.

Reena lives with her parents and three siblings in the village of Siyuna in Uttarkashi. As farm labourers, her parents struggled to provide for their children. When Reena’s marriage was fixed, their joy was mixed with the worry of arranging funds for the occasion. Like most young girls, Reena too had great dreams for her wedding and, like most parents, her's were also doing everything they could do to make the day a memorable one for her. The Wedding Kits proved to be a boon for Reena:
“Before, my parents would have spent a large amount of money in renting out a lehenga and other bridal accessories from the market. Thanks to the Wedding Kit, they will no longer have to do that. And no lehenga in the market can be as beautiful as the one I got from Goonj," she says.
"I did not have to spend a single rupee on any cosmetics as the Kit contained things that I could have never purchased in my life... I still use it and my friends say that it is different. These things are not available here in local markets.. That makes me happy” she adds.

The organisation also distributes Pandaal Kits, a collection of basics like utensils, blankets, daris, etc, in large quantities, to village communities.

g-6 These are then used by them during functions, and help reduce expenses to a great extent. Weddings are made of sweet memories for all of us and that’s probably why most of us don’t part with our wedding dresses. No wonder then that Goonj finds it very difficult to get wedding lehengas from urban India. But the organisation has adopted a small Indian-style jugaad to fill this gap, a little spin to the connect the proverbial dots.

The organisation takes Mata ki chunni’s, the shiny pieces of cloth offered to the Gods, and stitches them together to make wedding lehengas.g-7

It’s a sight to behold; and a pleasant surprise when you find that the beautiful lehengas you see at the processing centre have been created from what is given away in bulk at temples and religious functions. So far, the organisation has delivered hundreds of Wedding Kits in Uttarakhand, Madhya Pradesh and Bihar, with more than 400 Kits being distributed in Uttarakhand alone. Since Goonj doesn’t believe in charity, it encourages village communities to receive these kits after participating in developmental activities. Once a family uses the wedding dresses, the organisation  suggests that they pass it on to others who need them as well.

So the next time you are dusting off your wedding apparel, think of contributing it to fulfill someone’s life dreams and saving a family from financial ruin.

story-no-4-_4-300x225   To know more about Goonj and its various initiative, click here. To learn about drop-locations for donations in your city, click here
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Meet the 13-Year-Old Indian Girl Who Is Going to Speak at TED-Ed in NY

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“I feel that people look at cooking simply as an act of survival – you cook, you eat the food, and that’s pretty much about it. I look at it from a different perspective. From a young age, I saw my mother and grandmother cooking, and also found myself surrounded by cooking shows on TV and YouTube, etc. It really fascinated me because cooking is so much more than an act of survival – it has creativity and innovation. People would say that you can’t mix things like chilli and chocolate because apparently, it just doesn’t work. I wanted the break the so-called rules so I just tried it and found it to be good,” says Esha Karthiraj, a 13-year-old whose passion for cooking is now taking her to New York to speak at the inaugural TED-Ed Weekend event at TED headquarters. A youth and education initiative by TED, TED-Ed was started with the aim of celebrating the ideas of children and teachers around the world. The organization has started a TED-Ed club programme to help students across the world express their ideas in the form of TED-style talks. Esha joined the club about three years ago with the help of an institute named Sparkling Mindz in Bengaluru.

Today, she has been selected as one of the 20 children from across the world to speak during the event to be organised from December 1-3.

Founded by Sreeja Iyer, Sparkling Mindz runs a pre-school and an after-school programme called Young Thinkers and Achievers. “Esha has been a part of our after school programme for four years now. When the TED-Ed club was launched three years ago, we decided to sign up for it because our vision is very similar to theirs – that children have ideas, they need to be empowered, they need to feel heard,” says Sreeja. In their first class after becoming a part of the club, Sreeja asked the 15 children who has joined in to list down three things that they are passionate about. For Esha, one of those things was cooking and that's what she spoke about -- of how cooking gave her many important life lessons. The students worked hard on preparing their talks and recording them. A few months after the talks were submitted, Sreeja received the information that three of them had been selected for being uploaded on the TED-Ed blog. And a year from then, in August this year, Esha was selected to speak live at their first event.
“I didn’t really know what TED was before Sreeja Ma’am told us. And I knew that it wasn’t going to be easy. I was just 11 when I joined the club and it was really new for me. It was Sreeja Ma’am who kept encouraging me. ‘If you don’t do it, it is not going to get done,’ she would tell us. She pushed me a lot and enabled me to open up to express my ideas in a better way,” says Esha, talking about Sreeja’s role in her success.

Currently a student of Class 8 in CMR School, Bengaluru, Esha is passionate about writing and arts too.

A shy student from the beginning, it required a lot of perseverance on her part to emote herself the way she wanted to. That was also one of the reasons why her mother, Rakhee Prabhudesai, enrolled her in the programme. “Before joining Sparkling Mindz, I was really shy. I was the kind of kid who would just sit behind in class and act like she is listening to everything. I was so quiet; I didn’t know how to communicate my ideas. I didn’t talk to the people in my class until a good month or so after I joined school. My mom realised that this could be a problem later in life,” she says. Talking about the after school programme, Sreeja says that it is different from other such classes because Sparkling Mindz works on children’s creative thinking, critical thinking, communication skills, decision-making, managing emotions, etc. It is layered programme with five levels and children have to come once a week for two hours. “It is a completely game-based programme,” says Sreeja, excitedly. “Children come, play games, and in that process, they learn how to shift emotions and behaviours…We work with them on their fears and help them open up and express. Most of the time, children are told that you will grow up and do something. But we believe that they can do something today.”

The pre-school programme works on the Reggio-Emilia play-based methodology that is inspired by the fact that kids like to play with things they get in their hands. And in that process of playing, they are leaning too; so one can create a play-based structure to enable children to learn.

sm “It’s a really interesting programme. I really like it. It is different from other schools because children interact with the teachers not just to get the syllabus done and get out of the school. The goals of the teachers are different. They don’t even call themselves teachers. They are called facilitators because they learn with the kids. It is really amazing and fun,” says Esha. An Indian School of Business alumna, Sreeja worked in the corporate sector for about a decade before starting a career in education, which is her passion. After starting Sparkling Mindz about six years ago, she also went to study at Harvard Graduate School of Education to enhance her knowledge. She feels that Esha’s talk came from a very reflective place and was awesome because she took constant feedback and worked on it for about eight times in a year before the final recording.

Listen to her talk here.

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Meet the Ludhiana Advocate Who Runs a School for Ragpickers in a One-Room Slum Hutment

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Meet Hari Om, a 50-year-old advocate from Ludhiana who is slowly changing the lives of children in a city slum. Here's how. “It isn’t a child’s fault if he/she is born into an underprivileged family. All such children need education to succeed in life and shine brightly. But the problem is they usually don’t have anyone to look after them or worry about their education. This injustice, created right at the time of birth of these children, prevents the economic growth of one section of society. This is of major cause of concern for me. This is why, after giving some thought to the matter, I started working on my project to provide quality education to children in need,” says Hari Om Jindal, a Ludhiana-based advocate who runs a school in a slum in the city.

The children in this school used to be rag pickers and beggars once upon a time; today they are learning English, maths and much more.

hariom17 The school is located in a slum near the Dairy Complex Area of Hambran Road in Ludhiana. It is housed in a simple hut-like construction, with just one room where classes take place in shifts. “I did not want even one child in the slum to be deprived of basic education. It was important to ensure that kids reach the school conveniently – otherwise they would come one day and be absent the next. So I decided to take education right to their doorsteps. I took an open area in the slum and constructed a hut-like room that now acts as a classroom,” says 50-year-old Hari Om who started the school in May 2014. Hari Om has a unique way of enrolling his students in school. Whenever he comes across children who are rag-picking or collecting garbage, he stops to talk to them.

He asks them questions about themselves and their families, and distributes sweets and toys among them regularly. While it takes a lot of time to win their trust, he continues to go to the same spot every day.

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“They start trusting me over a period of three to four months once they understand that I keep coming for their good. And the next task, after the kids agree to come to school, is to convince their parents. I help them understand the importance of education, which is again a time-consuming process. It is also difficult to get the children to quit rag-picking because it is their source of income. But I never give up on any of them.”

In this way, the school that started with 12 children now has 30 – in the age group of 4 to 14 years.

hariom16 One of the best things about Hari Om’s school is that children here learn a lot more than just alphabets and numbers. They are taught about things that will help them in everyday life as well. If one class is about sentence formation, another is about the workings of a democracy; and if they learn about division and multiplication one day, it is all about taxes the next. “What I am doing is helping them get a basic understanding of life. They know all about public property, taxation, governance, voting, the Constitution, their fundamental rights and duties, how we select our representatives, how we can hold them accountable, etc.”

In fact, the school has been so successful that eight women from the slum have also joined as students here.

hariom12 They attend the afternoon classes to learn English and maths. One of the women is Savita. When Hari Om asked her how she feels about her studies, Savita simply smiled and said that she is now able to keep records of her household expenditure. "Hers was a confident answer. She knew that no one could fool her now. This is the kind of change my school has been creating," he says.

Earlier, Hari Om used to conduct classes every day from 4 pm to 6 pm. But he often had to leave the city to travel for work. So he decided to hire some teachers to conduct regular classes.

hariom18 “Appointing teachers was difficult because the area is surrounded by garbage dumps. So I decided to hire students from the slum as teachers,” he says. He started looking for students of Classes 10-12 from underprivileged backgrounds, who could teach the younger kids. One of the first teachers he hired was a student of Class 10, whose father works as a tea seller near the slum. The student is happy with this opportunity because it gives him a source of income to save money for higher education. Today, the school has five part-time teachers and one full-time teacher.

They conduct classes all day – starting from 10 am to 12 noon for children, 12 to 1 pm for the women, and again 4 pm to 6 pm for the children.

hariom13 Hari Om is speaking with some CBSE schools in Ludhiana to help enrol some of his kids in mainstream schools as well. These are children who are now capable of understanding what is being taught in an English medium school. Hari Om has also enrolled three of the children into computer classes. "One of our students is Rani. Her mother once told me that I should teach her daughter properly and make her so well-versed in computers that she gets a job in an office. And the best part is she told me she would not get 19-year-old Rani married for the next six years now. In a place where girls are married off at the age of 15, this is a transformation that cannot be described in words," he says.

Hari Om used to run a successful business before he decided to quit work and study law in the year 2008.

hariom19 "I am writing a book about the current situation with respect to children and their requirements in India. For this, I felt it was necessary to understand the ground conditions and also the workings of different policies in the country. Studying law, I think, is the best way to do that." Apart some contributions from friends, Hari Om has used his own savings to finance the school till now. He provides the students with books, schoolbags and uniforms as well. "When people tell me that they don’t have time for social service, I always ask them -- 'How do you make time for being stuck in traffic jams for four hours every day?' If we work for the country and for those who need help, a transformation will definitely happen." he says determinedly. You can contact him at hariomparkashjindal@gmail.com

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The Inspiring Story of How Sikkim Became India’s Cleanest State

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In Sikkim's Basilakha village, residents proudly escort visitors to their toilets, before posing happily for a photoshoot with a lavatory in the background. Basilakha is not an exception.

In this small north-eastern state, people have a sense of pride that their home state is India's first open-defecation free state.

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This record was reiterated in the recently conducted Swachhta (cleanliness) survey undertaken by the National Sample Survey Office (NSSO) on the condition of sanitation in Indian states. According to the report, all four of Sikkim's districts rank among top ten districts in cleanliness and sanitation. About 98.2% households in Sikkim are equipped with clean toilets and 100% of the state's population use the community or household toilet. Sikkim began its cleanliness drive over a decade before Prime Minister Narendra Modi launched the Swachh Bharat Mission. It was 13 years ago in 2003 when the Pawan Chamling-led government launched its total sanitation campaign for the state. The state government began by sensitizing people to adopt a holistic approach that would improve hygiene and sanitation, protect the environment and accelerate overall development in the state. Next, it constructed 98,043 household latrines, surpassing its own target of 87,014. Of these, 61,493 latrines were built for below poverty line (BPL) families.

There was also a conscious effort to install public filters for drinking water, build more public toilets and introduce a better drainage system in the major cities like Gangtok and Namchi.

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As many as 1,772 schools were covered under the total sanitation campaign. This was done under the central government's Nirmal Bharat sanitation drive.The government also got local panchayats involved to sensitise people, particularly about hygiene and the fact that Sikkim needed to maintain a clean and green image as a tourism state.
Next, the Sikkim state government made it mandatory to have functional sanitary toilets at home for candidates filing nominations for contesting panchayat elections. A functional sanitary toilet in the household was also made mandatory for availing any kind of benefit and grants from the government.

The campaign also included door-to-door campaigning and working with school children to convince families about the health benefits of using toilets.

  [caption id="attachment_70443" align="aligncenter" width="1191"]On the birth anniversary of Pandit Deendayal Upadhyaya, (who was an Indian Philosopher, Economist, Sociologist, and Political Scientist) National Sanitation Awareness Campaign under Swachh Bharat Mission organized by Rural Management and Development Department (RMDD) got underway at Titanic Park in Sikkim on 25-09-15. Pix by UB Photos National Sanitation Awareness Campaign organized at Geyzing[/caption]
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The first acknowledgement of the campaign's success came in 2008, when Sikkim was declared a ‘Nirmal Rajya’, a national award for sanitation and cleanliness. For the Sikkim government, the next endeavor was to focus on sustainability and qualitative improvement with special focus on school sanitation and solid-liquid waste management.


Under the School Sanitation & Hygiene Education programme of TSC, the special sanitation needs of women and adolescent school girls were addressed by making a gender sensitive school sanitation programme. This was done by introducing sanitary napkin dispensers and disposers on a pilot basis in  schools, covering two schools per district. In these schools, every adolescent girl child could get a sanitary napkin by inserting a Rs 2 coin into the vending machine. Simultaneously, the used napkins could be incinerated in the disposer installed in the toilets of these schools. Furthermore, handbooks on waste management and hygiene management for adolescent girls' have also been introduced in schools.

With these pilot projects eliciting an encouraging response, more schools are being covered with such facilities in the next phase.

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Sikkim's cleanliness model has evolved over the decade to ensure that the people abide by rules. There is a strictly enforced, legal penalty for every violation - for using plastics, for smoking in public places, for urinating in the open and for littering. Breaking rules fetches stiff fines. Smoking in public place, for example, could cost the offender a fine of Rs 200, whereas urinating in public places has a fine of Rs 500. Along with the ban on plastics, these rules have been enforced in the state for over a decade now.
However, the government knows that there is more to be done. While plastic packets are now rarely spotted, PET (polyethylene terephthalate) water bottles are still sometimes thrown by tourists. To address this issue, the government is contemplating a complete ban on such water bottles. This will compel locals as well as tourist to use the RO or filter water made available in designated public places, hotels and restaurants. Once executed, it will be another first in India.
In 2016, Sikkim also became the first Organic State of India, having shunned chemical pesticides and fertilizers for 13 years to return to natural methods of farming.

While Sikkim has clearly emerged as the cleanest state, it also has the possibility of soon emerging as the first state in India with zero poverty - only 8 % of the state's families live below the poverty line.

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Speaking about the state's 13 year old cleanliness campaign to Economic Times, Sikkim CM Pawan Chamling says,
"When I see the Swachh Bharat campaign in such a big way across the country, I feel vindicated that I did something right back in 2003."
Lok Sabha MP from Sikkim, Prem Das Rai adds,
"Sikkim has clean food, clean air, and clean water. We are also a fully organic state. So, there is clean living. Because there is clean living, people in Sikkim are healthy and happy."
While the government's efforts in helping Sikkim achieve these remarkable targets is commendable, the commitment and self-imposed discipline of the Sikkimese people also needs to be appreciated.
In a school in West Sikkim, innovative children are showing their communities how to manage waste by recycling plastics into useful items of daily life. Here is a glimpse of this great initiative.
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Also ReadHow Kerala is Getting Ready to Become an ‘Open Defecation Free’ State by November 1

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This Double Arm Amputee Drives So Well With His Legs, He Could Not Be Denied a Driving Licence!

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“I make the most of whatever I have,” that’s what Vikram Agnihotri, the man who has no arms yet drives with his legs, says! Vikram has lived by this philosophy since the age of seven when he lost both his arms to an electrical accident. Through the years, he taught himself to do a host of things with the two limbs that he has. He writes, shaves and uses his laptop with his foot. He is an avid swimmer, a passionate footballer, and a serial entrepreneur too. It was just last year that he decided to learn driving. And he confidently sat behind the wheel of an automatic gear shift car and taught himself how to drive!

Now, at the age of 46, Vikram has created history by becoming the first Indian who drives with his legs to get a valid driving licence.

vikram-agnihotri-indore It was not easy for him to get the driving licence. The authorities were foxed as to how they could grant a licence to someone who uses his right foot to steer the vehicle and the left to switch between the brake and the accelerator. They gave Vikram a learner’s licence but were hesitant to give him a permanent one. But Vikram made sure the authorities had no reason to reject his application. As required by law, Vikram had his car modified to suit his physical requirements. He now drives an automatic car that has no clutch pedal. Since Vikram uses his left foot to operate the brake and accelerator pedals, the distance between the two was slightly inconvenient for him. He had to stretch and reach the accelerator with his left leg. But he got this solved by getting a parallel accelerator made in the place where a clutch normally is. This made the pedal operation easier for him and took care of the technical aspect of the vehicle. Now the authorities had almost no reason to doubt Vikram’s driving skills. He drives like a professional, so much so that he plans to train himself to race. But there are no clear provisions in the existing law to grant a licence to someone who drives with his legs. It took a year of relentless pursuit, including approaching ministers, for Vikram to finally get his driving licence.

Driving has been one of the most liberating experiences ever, says Vikram.

vikram-agnihotri4 He has driven over 14,500 kilometres in the last 15 months. His driving posture might look awkward to others but Vikram says he is completely at ease. He was initially conscious of people staring at how his leg was placed on the steering. But, he says, “Now people do not even notice that I’m driving with my leg. And I completely enjoy driving. I sometimes tell myself, ‘How can you drive so well?’” Vikram has a great zest for life and he is committed to passing on this spirit to other divyang people as well, he says. He started an NGO called WIL (Winners in Life) to support and guide physically disabled individuals in exploring their potential.

“I want the physically challenged to know that there are tons of things they can do,” says Vikram.

vikram_agnihotri1 To raise funds for this cause, Vikram is planning to drive on the tough roads of Ladakh next June. He’ll probably create history again by becoming the first man to drive with his legs on the highest motorable road in the world over Khardung La. As he prepares for this ride, he is also pursuing his Bachelor’s degree in law. Yes, he is indeed making the most of his life! Vikram lives with his parents in Indore. You can write to him at vikram.agnihotri@gmail.com

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This Railway Clerk Rescues Children Who Beg & Steal on Platforms. One of Them Is a Scientist Today.

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This former railway clerk from Nellore station, known as “Daddy” to more than 120 children, runs an organization that provides food for the body and soul to some of the most battered lives in our country. Sarath Babu has been rescuing children who beg and steal on railway platforms for a long time. Today, one of his children works at a national research institute as a scientist, another is a circle inspector, and yet another is a professor. He has rehabilitated children who could not read and write until they were 12 years old, yet they work as teachers today. To make such a difference to one child is an incredible task, but to do so for 120+ children is nothing short of Herculean. Ask him how he has done it and he says, “They are so intelligent already, I am nothing but a humble enabler.”

When Sarath Babu was working with the Railways, he used to see dirty urchins from different backgrounds daily on the railway platform. He first started out with providing these children with a place to eat and rest and sleep.

sarath1 Next, Sarath Babu approached the elders of Gollapallem village in North Amulur Panchayat, Allur Mandal of Nellore district in Andhra Pradesh, requesting them to spare a piece of land for the experiment that he was keen to conduct to rehabilitate children from the platforms. The villagers gave the land and their consent on a temporary basis so he could go ahead with this challenging task. A hut, measuring 30 x 15 feet, was constructed with some material available in the village.
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The process of rehabilitation was so challenging as to be almost impossible. The children’s life experiences were such that they would send shivers down the spine of anyone listening to them. Battered and bitter, the only life many of them knew was of stealing and begging; anything different felt alien to them, hence they were suspicious of the change Sarath was trying to bring about by starting his ashram home. Rehabilitation work was slow and needed to be handled very delicately with the right amount of tact. There were instances of Sarath being tied up to his cot and being left there by one of the children, or being constantly pick pocketed by another child. Stealing and violence were all that the children knew as a way of survival. But on seeing the efforts of Sarath and his team, the villagers supported him and encouraged him to continue working in the village. They donated 4.5 acres of land to develop the school and living space for the children, which came to be known as the CHILD ashram. The children from the village and the children from the railway platforms are treated with equal love and warmth by the residents of the area.

In fact, the children of CHILD Ashram are the first to receive an invitation for any wedding or function organized by the villagers. They are also the first to be served food, a custom that is reserved for the most honoured guests.

sarath2 Sarath does not like to call the CHILD ashram an orphanage. These children, who were off to a terrible start in life are now being slowly transformed again into responsible and contributing members of society. Sarath is a staunch devotee of Shirdi Sai Baba and has dedicated himself to the service of these needy children. When asked if the children who leave contribute to the ashram, his reply is that he wants them to carry on the good work by themselves somewhere else so that society benefits more. Sarath's dream is to see each child become another Sarath! The system that Sarath has developed is so effective that if he is to leave the organization today, the children would be able to manage the show on their own! Each child is assigned to a group, each group has a function within the ashram. One group takes care of cleaning, and other groups are responsible for cooking, going to the market, teaching the other children, washing utensils, etc. The girls’ quarters are strictly cordoned off to any men and are maintained very well with ample sanitation and privacy. The ashram children also grow their own vegetables and lovingly take care of a cow.
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These are the stories of some of the children who have benefitted from Sarath Babu’s efforts:

sarath3 One of the children’s father was an employee at Trirumala Tirupati Devastanam. Due to conflicts within the family, the father committed suicide, the boy left his home and lived on railway platforms, and was involved in petty thefts. This child, under Sarath’s care, went on to pass Class 10 in the 1st division and completed M.Sc. in organic chemistry with distinction. He is now working as a Jr. Scientist at the National Institute of Technology, Suratkal, Mangalore. A second child was hit hard by his father’s sudden death and mother’s subsequent depression. He fell into bad company and took to living on platforms. After being rescued by Sarath Babu, he has today completed a polytechnic course in civil engineering and is serving as a Work Inspector in the Panchayat Raj Department.

A third child, who used to beg for alms on railway platforms dressed in nothing but ragged underwear, is today serving as a Sub-Inspector in the Andhra Pradesh Police Department

sarath4 The fourth child’s story is even more heartbreaking, yet amazing. His father lost his arm in a saw-mill and later died. His mother used to sell tea and the child, left uncared for, began to live on railway platforms. He travelled the length and breadth of India and spent three spells in government observation homes in Kolkata, Chennai and Hyderabad. He started his basic schooling when he was 11 years old, under Sarath Babu’s care. Within a year and a half, he completed Class 7, passing with 1st division. He passed with distinction in Class 10 and 12 too. He went on to complete BTech and higher studies and is now a physics lecturer in a private college.
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Sarath is an inspiration to all of us! We have a lot to learn from him and his children! You canSarath Babu at: J. Rama Chandra Sarath Babu CHILD Ashram School, Gollapalem village, North Amulur  Panchyat, ALLUR Mandal , Nellore Disi, Pin : 524315 Phone no : 944037537 (Written by Hima Bindhu Vankayalapati)

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Dehradun Organisation Educates 1300 Street Children & is Raising Funds For Their Winter Uniforms

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The Aasraa trust was started in 2009 under a bridge in Dehradun, as a small facility to teach the children of slum dwellers. The founder of Aasraa, Shaila Brijnath, is an ex-investment banker who left her lucrative job in the US and began working at the Latika Roy foundation. This foundation works for children with disabilities in Uttarakhand. It was here that Shaila met Neha Joshi, who is now a consultant for the Aasraa trust.

Neha told The Better India that Shaila first came across street children when she was just passing through one of Dehradun’s busiest intersections on the banks of the river Bindal.

aasra5 She says, “After 2001, when Uttarakhand became a separate state and Dehradun became the capital, the city witnessed a huge influx of migrant labourers from various parts of the country like Bihar and Jharkhand. This resulted in a population explosion in the riverside slums. Two rivers run across Dehradun and both of them have been encroached upon by slum dwellers; they live in deplorable conditions. Their plight moved Shaila, who started visiting these settlements to teach, bathe and groom around 30 kids every day.”
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Soon enough, people around the Bindal Bridge noticed Shaila’s work and some of them joined her. They started with a small shed to conduct classes and, seven years later, they are running 13 programmes.

They also manage three schools, of which two are mobile schools. These mobile schools are buses that have been fitted with TV screens.

aasra2 Neha says, “The school comes to the children instead of the other way around. The TV screens are used to impart lessons to students who enter the mobile school.” With its 13 programmes in place, the Aasraa trust manages to reach out to 1,300 children every day. It employs around 100 people, including teachers, administrative staff, and drivers.

One of the primary reasons behind their impressive statistics is the community outreach programme.

aasra4 Neha says, “We’ve always maintained at Aasraa that the outreach programme is the backbone of our organisation. People from our team form smaller groups and proceed to various slum settlements around the city. And we’ve noticed that on the days we don’t run the programme, the attendance tends to fall. Those who grew up in middle class households would know how their parents would push them to go to school every morning. But these children are not encouraged to go to school by their parents – in fact, they’re often discouraged from going to school and told to either beg or take up some menial jobs. So, it's hard for them to the see the deferred effects of learning. Our outreach team goes from house to house in order to convince parents and make them aware of the long-term impact of schooling.”
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The Aasraa trust is aware that it is essential to put the children through some preliminary education before they are enrolled in schools for formal education.

aasra1 So, Aasraa runs a Street Smart programme, under which it educates more than 300 children on a daily basis. Street Smart is an “informal learning program with introduction to basic literacy.” Any child associated with the Aasraa trust through the outreach program is first enrolled in the Street Smart programme. Here, the children start by learning the basics of Hindi, English and Maths. The children are soon divided into different groups according their position on the “learning ladder.” Neha says, “Our effort is to send them to regular public schools without them having to feel embarrassed about their age or knowledge levels; we attempt to mainstream them. The National Institute for Open Learning (NIOS) holds exams for the learning levels of 3rd, 5th and 8th graders. If a 15-year-old is enrolled under the Street Smart programme, we make him/her prepare for the Class 3 level examination. NIOS is very helpful in letting children learn at their own pace.”

But getting street children to enrol in public schools is not where the process of mainstreaming them ends.

aasra3 Apart from sponsoring their education, giving them one hot meal a day, taking care of their medical expenses, and providing them with basic study materials, Aasraa also likes to ensure that the children are treated in a dignified manner when they enter classrooms with kids from different financial backgrounds.

Since winter is fast approaching, street children need to be equipped with winter uniform; the dropout rate peaks between November and February.

[embedvideo id="WRIghjCQs3Y" website="youtube"] Neha says, “We have a good relationship with cloth vendors because we’ve been around for some time now. Despite this, winter uniforms tend to cost up to Rs. 3,000 per set. And winters in Dehradun are pretty brutal, so we’ve noticed that our children tend to fall sick quite often, which means our medical bills go up. Another overarching concern for us was making sure that the children don’t feel insecure when they share classrooms with their wealthier counterparts. We want them to blend in, because we’ve encountered instances of merciless bullying and children being pulled out of classrooms because their uniform wasn’t sparkling clean.”

This winter, the Aasraa trust is running a crowd funding campaign to equip 350+ children with winter uniforms, so they won’t fall sick and can learn with dignity.

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Celebrating India’s Rural Women: 3 Inspiring Stories of Women Farmers Bringing About Change

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ccording to the World Bank, rural women comprise 43 percent of the agricultural labour force that produces, processes and prepares much of the food available in the world. In recognition of the contribution of these women, the UN celebrates the International Day for Rural Women on October 15. This day recognizes the role of rural women, including indigenous women, in enhancing agricultural and rural development, improving food security and eradicating poverty. With temperatures rising, weather patterns changing and climate-related disasters becoming more frequent, food security has become a major challenge across the world, and especially in India. As key players in the country's agriculture sector and those in charge of ensuring adequate nutrition for families, rural women are at the centre of this challenge. A FAO (Food and Agriculture Organization) report says that if women were given equal access to resources as men, agricultural yield could increase 2.5-4% in developing countries, enough to feed at least 100 million more undernourished people! Empowering and investing in rural women is also pre-requisite to fulfilling the vision of the Sustainable Development Goals that aims to end poverty and hunger, protect the environment, improve health parameters and empower all women. This fact is reflected in the inspiring stories of women across the globe who have fought legal, social and cultural obstacles to bring about significant social and economical reforms in their communities. In honour of the International Day of Rural Women 2016, here are three incredible stories of rural women farmers in India who are making a difference in their communities and inspiring others in the process.

1. Rita Kamila

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A self-sufficient farmer who has achieved a sustainable source of livelihood in one of the world’s top climate change hotspots, the Sunderbans, Rita Kamila has worked almost single-handedly on her land to achieve the right mix of farming and animal husbandry. Known locally as a model farmer, Rita has successfully transitioned her farm to organic over the past few years and now grows several varieties of food crops. Using the ecologically sound practices of integrated farming, she has incorporated livestock and fish culture into her farm. She has also installed a bio-digester plant that generates bio gas from farm waste such as livestock manure and fish waste. The biogas is used as cooking fuel and the residue is judiciously recycled to provide nutrients to crops. Rita's thriving farm has ensured that her family has plenty to eat round the year and she gained the respect of her fellow farmers, who stop by her farm for peer-to-peer exchanges.

2. Atram Padma Bai

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The elected Sarpanch of eight villages with more than 2,000 farmers, 37-year-old Padma Bai was a tribal Girijan farmer who only cultivated cotton, oil seeds and pulses on her three acre land. In 2013, she used a Rs. 30,000 loan from the Fairtrade Premiums Committee to launch a Hiring Centre for agricultural tools.

With the support of a Fairtrade India certified producer organisation, she invested in drudgery reducing farming tools such as pick-axes, sickle, spades, hoes and wheelbarrows. Her idea was to lend these tools to poor farmers in neighbouring villages who could not afford them, at a marginal rate, through her hiring centre. Using the premiums, Padma Bai also set up a drudgery reduction unit, and constructed two concrete roads and a fair weather dry mud road. The hard working sarpanch has also managed to get government funds to make ponds for rainwater harvesting and install a water pump that will make clean water available in the village school.

3. Women Farmers of Medak

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Women farmers of the Medak District of Telangana are teaching sustainable rain-fed farming techniques to peasants in the neighbouring Vidarbha region of Maharashtra. Representing the poorest of the poor in their village communities, these women farmers were once landless laborers, but today, thanks to the Deccan Development Society (DDS) village level women's sanghams (voluntary farmer associations), these women have not only tackled their farming problems effectively but are also generating an additional income through innovative and eco-friendly ways. Using traditional preservation techniques, these women preserve organic seeds that they barter with farmers in the region. Chandramma, who heads the Seed Bank at Pastapur, explains that they pick and keep the healthy grain in a mud container, layered with neem leaves, ash and dry grass. They then seal the whole box with mud, dry it and keep it at a secure space. On their month-long seed bartering journey to 30 villages in the region, Chandramma and her fellow women farmers teacher other villagers how to follow organic farming methods and grow climate-resistant crops like traditional varieties of millets. Many of them have become filmmakers (they haven't been to school!) who have produced documentaries on organic farming, seed sovereignty, bio-fertilisers and good farming practices that have been screened worldwide. They have also launched the Sangham community radio, the first-of-its-kind in India, which is another great initiative that educates farmers in a staggering 200 villages in the region. There is no doubt about the power that women have in shaping and guiding sustainable development in rural areas. Today, many Indian women farmers are taking the lead in helping to find innovative and lasting solutions for many of the challenges which exist today. All of these women share one thing in common – a passionate and unwavering belief that through their innovative business approaches, they can change things for the better. Rural communities thrive on the commitment and dedication of these women, and hence, it's important to acknowledge the contributions of these unsung heroines. On this International Day for Rural Women, we tip our hat to these awesome rural women who are playing such important roles in their community.
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This Retd. Armyman Will Honour Our Fallen Heroes by Cycling over 12,000km – 2 Min for Every Martyr!

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When 58-year-old Major General Somnath Jha retired in September this year, he didn’t want to simply hang up his boots the usual way. Being a third generation soldier of the Indian Army and having spent 37 years of his life serving the nation is surely a great deal, but Maj.Gen. Jha is far from retiring. Age is just a number for him.
“The scars of soldiering carry the memories of many friends and peers who fell in battles and combat defending the honour, integrity and freedom of our country. Hence, before I put my military career behind me, I have decided to undertake one last mission,” he says.

Maj.Gen. Jha has several challenging achievements under his belt -- like scaling Mt. Kilimanjaro at the age of 54 and learning para-gliding at 56, to name a few.

s1 He is also a cycling enthusiast and has undertaken cross country cycling trips in his spare time. Which is one of the reasons why he came up with a unique idea after retirement. His latest mission is a personal homage he wishes to pay to all our fallen heroes and martyrs; numbering over 20,600 since Independence. This homage will be rendered by cycling two minutes for every fallen hero. The journey will see him travel over 12,000 km on his bicycle, touching every state in the country over a period of seven months or so.

His tribute is not only for the martyred soldiers but also for their families who suffer unimaginable anguish, pain and trauma after the loss of their loved ones.

somnath-pic1 The journey will commence on October 19, 2016, from Ambala Cantonment, Haryana, which was his last posting before retirement. He will then head eastwards through the states of Uttar Pradesh and Bihar. After travelling the North-Eastern states, he will continue down the east coast and then up the west coast, all the way to Jammu and Kashmir. And then he will head southwards to conclude his homage journey at the Amar Jawan Jyoti (War Memorial) in New Delhi.
“Freedom, that we all take for granted, doesn't actually come for free. It's been paid for by the lives of our gallant soldiers. Paid forward by them, for us to enjoy. It, therefore, deserves to be respected, honoured and upheld in its true spirit,” he says.

The detailed route, itinerary and updates of his journey will be posted on Facebook here.

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How an American in Dharamshala Created Tibet’s First Women’s Football Team to Fight Sexism

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In their modest homes in Dharamsala, a hill station in Himachal Pradesh, young Tibetan girls prepare their bags for a football camp while their mothers make tea. One of them is 20-year-old Lhamo Kyi whose dream is to one day play football in the FIFA Women’s World Cup.

Tibetans may not have a country, but they have a national women's soccer team, thanks to 34-year-old American high school teacher, Cassie Childers.

[caption id="attachment_71742" align="aligncenter" width="1200"]1 The Tibet Women's Soccer team (left) and Cassie Childers (right)[/caption] For the young refugee women of the Tibetan Women's Soccer team (soccer is another name for football), also known as the Snow Lionesses, the sport is more than just a recreational activity. It is a way for them to fight for gender equality, and use the sport as a tool to represent their homeland. [caption id="attachment_71727" align="aligncenter" width="621"]14355611_1157410597652871_127749281680358981_n A Tibetan girl in Dharamshala playing football[/caption] A high school teacher from New Jersey and a lifelong soccer fan, Cassie first visited Dharamsala— a place where much of the Tibet's exiled refugee diaspora lives — as a tourist. Moved by their struggles, Cassie continued to visit the Tibetan community in India whenever she had time for a holiday. It was during one of those holidays, in 2010, that the idea of Tibet Women's Football was born. Upon noticing that there were no female football teams in the exiled Tibetan community, Cassie decided to work full time to create a football program for Tibetan girls. Speaking to The Better India, Cassie says,
"During my many stays in Dharamshala, I became aware of some of the gender issues in Tibetan society, including the existence of a men's football program while there was no program for women. I decided to start a women's team that could address gender disparities and create opportunities for Tibetan women to engage in sports diplomacy at the same time. Exactly one year later I had resigned from my teaching position and moved to India to start the program."

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In the summer of 2012, the team of young Tibetan girls walked onto the football pitch for the first time to play a match in the Gyalyum Chemo Memorial Gold Cup. Many of them were born inside Tibet and had walked with their parents across the Himalayas to escape Chinese rule. Most of the team members had never kicked a football before their one-month training for this tournament, and no one among the 5000-odd Tibetan spectators expected them to do anything memorable. Most people in the stadium were laughing at the thought of girls playing football. However, this was soon to change.

A few minutes into the second half, the questions about the team’s credibility seemed to fade -  Lhamo Kyi had scored the first goal in the history of Tibetan women’s soccer.

[caption id="attachment_71729" align="aligncenter" width="610"]9_january_2013_004 Lhamo Kyi[/caption] Describing the historic moment, Cassie says,
"This girl kicked the ball in the net and then ran into the middle of the ground and did a flip in celebration. And, at that very moment, you could feel the gender paradigm of the entire nation begin to shift, and from that moment forward, I knew we could become a force to be reckoned with."
The Tibet Women's Soccer programme started receiving support from both within and outside the community, and was soon experiencing commendable results on and off the field. For the young women of the team, the initiative proved to be a game-changer. Each one of them has an amazing story, but perhaps the most dramatic one is that of Lhamo Kyi. Lhamo Kyi first came to the program in 2011, a shy and awkward school girl who would scarcely speak. A month later, she had emerged as a natural leader and was elected the team captain by her peers. Just a week after the camp ended, the 15-year-old made the brave decision to leave school and embark on a peace march from Dharamsala back to her home in Tibet. After a long, exhausting journey, Lhamo (along with her mother and brother) made it all the way to the Nepal border, where they were treated badly and thrown back into India by border guards. Her brother, Tsetan Dorjee, was detained by the Nepali authorities and has not been heard from since. A heartbroken Lhamo Kyi returned to Dharamsala with her mother, determined to find a way to help her country. One week later, she led the Tibetan Women's Soccer (TWS) team into the stadium for their first match, wearing her nation's flag proudly on her sleeve. Playing as the captain of the team, Lhamo scored the first goal in the history of Tibet women's football in this match. Now, almost five years later, Lhamo Kyi has enrolled in India's top physical education university, and is slated to become Tibet's first female sports coach. The young girl has emerged as a role model in her society, and is leading by example. Lhamo and her fellow team members know how important this platform is for both, their fellow Tibetan women as well as their nation. A sense of responsibility and commitment, removed from the hype of professional football, infuses the discussions of these girls. As Cassie says,
"For them, TWS is more than a football team — it’s about unity, it’s about politics, and it is also about raising your own voice."

When it comes to performance on the field, the Snow Lionesses have managed to hold their ground against various district and state outfits in India over the years.

[caption id="attachment_71735" align="aligncenter" width="960"]13100739_1058485604212038_6176075358731232133_n Team members at a practice session[/caption] In 2014, the team lifted the title at the Imphal Ladies' Spring Football festival in Manipur. More recently, in 2015, a seven-member delegation visited Berlin in Germany to take part in the Discover Football International Football Festival, its first ever international tour. Describing it as a memorable milestone in Tibetan Women Soccer's journey, Cassie says,
"Understanding the implications of this politically, we kept the trip secret until we arrived there in Berlin, which was why the Chinese team had no idea that we would be there. As Tibetans, the girls had a natural disdain for China, who invaded their country in the 1950s and who has caused so much pain and suffering for them and their families. However, they also realized the power that was contained in this opportunity  - the power to bridge divides and make a headway in the Tibetan cause - at a human level. The team was waiting when the bus carrying the Chinese team pulled up at the stadium, and our brave young players ran over to greet them, embracing them and speaking to them in Chinese so that they would understand. During the course of the week, the Chinese and Tibetan teams interacted and played football together, forming friendships and sharing their stories. These players became the first Tibetan women to represent their country abroad in a sporting match, and the first Tibetan athletes of any sex to meet Chinese athletes in a competition post invasion."

The Tibetan women players' participation in the Berlin event brought the world's attention to the Tibet Women's Soccer initiative and the work it was doing.

[caption id="attachment_71733" align="aligncenter" width="960"]11665560_904805656246701_207492212825395435_n The Tibet Women's Soccer Team at Berlin[/caption] However, it hasn't been an easy journey. After all, change is never easily won in society. The main challenge the team faced came from within the Tibetan community itself - many individuals denounced and tried to shut down the initiative, outrightly saying that football was not important for girls. However, the players didn't give up and struggled to prove themselves. They knew that every time one of them went onto the pitch to play, it was reinforcing the idea that women are capable of doing anything a man can do, something that was not necessarily accepted in their society. Each time they succeeded, it brought the next generation one step closer to gender equality.
"Football empowers Tibetan women on many different levels. Most of our players are semi-orphans in exile, with very little support from their families back in Tibet. The team has become a family to them - a place where they feel safe, accepted, and loved. TWS doesn't just provide training in football - we also conduct workshops in leadership, communication, gender study, and confidence building at all of our camps - and this has paid off big time in just a few years," Cassie told TBI. "Today, the girls love playing football. They are braver, more confident, and hold themselves with more self-respect."

Cassie's next aim is to make the sport accessible to every Tibetan girl living in exile in India through TWS's grassroots development initiatives.

[caption id="attachment_71741" align="aligncenter" width="1200"]Director Irshal Ishu and football coach Cassie Childers pose for a photo in McLeod Ganj, India, on 6 October 2013. Cassie Childers with Irshal Ishu, the director of a documentary on Tibetan Women’s Football, 'Kicking Boundaries'[/caption] At the same time, the senior team will engage in a more competitive football environment, hoping to achieve full recognition by FIFA (the international governing body of football) and to eventually reach the very highest level of the game, the World Cup and the Olympics.

FIFA currently recognizes 23 non-sovereign entities (including Palestine and Hong Kong) as football teams but refuses to recognize Tibet. Pressure from the Chinese government has influenced their recent decisions in the past few years. Cassie feels that as the political situation with China remains at a stalemate, sport has the potential to inspire awareness and dialogue for the Tibetan cause in ways that politics can't.


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Tibet Women's Soccer's growth has so far been quite commendable, and as it aims to go international (under FIFA) in the future, it could play an important role in drawing the world's attention to the Tibetan cause. On a brighter note, times are changing and team members have started training other exiled refugee girls in distant villages. All these young women dream about playing for their beloved homeland that lies across the mountains that they see everyday. And thanks to Cassie Childers, they can one day fulfill these dreams. Here's how you can support and help the Tibet Women’s Soccer initiative.

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How a Young Couple from Delhi Left City Life behind to Become Full-Time Organic Farmers in Mysore

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Meet Vivek and Juli, a couple who started doing organic farming in Mysore in 1986 and have today built a unique example of sustainable living. About 30 years ago, Juli and Vivek Cariappa, a young couple from Delhi, travelled to Birwal village of Heggadadevana Kote taluka in Mysore district of Karnataka. They bought a small piece of land there and started farming. Juli was 20 at the time and Vivek was 21. He had studied economics and she had a degree in sociology.

Both of them quit their jobs at a garment export company and decided to take the leap of faith – one that has now turned into a beautiful story of adventure, sustainability, green living, and lots of love.

img-20161014-wa0020 “For me, it was about taking control of my life,” says Juli who was born in India and left for Rome at the age of seven when her father was transferred for a job. She returned to India when she was 17. “Farming was just something that made a lot of sense to me. I was always the kind of person who didn’t like the way things are always put into boxes rather than being integrated as a whole. I liked the idea of relating and bringing together different parts of life into one way of living. That was an important motivation for me. Additionally, as a child, I used to be quite sick. I had a lot of bronchial issues and used to take allopathic medicines. I was 14 when I decided that I had to heal my body and it was up to me. It was clear to me that I had to do this by being in contact with a piece of land and being able to make my own decisions.”
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Juli and Vivek were studying in Delhi University and they met each other on a college bus. “I grew up in Delhi and realised early what urban life really is…When we met, I didn’t have the thought that I wanted to farm, per se. But I was happy doing something else other than living the urban life – 9 to 5. And I was also interested in taking control of my destiny. When she came up with the idea of farming, more than anything else, I was happy just being with her. For me, other things came much later. Right then I was happy to go where she would be. One of the biggest assets we have is that we are more like friends than husband and wife. We went there as two city kids and grew together,” says Vivek.

They left Delhi in 1985 and went to a remote area located about 50 km south of Mysore.

julivivek2 At the time, there were only three busses plying on that route and there they were – two people with a dream, starting from scratch. There was no phone or electricity where they lived for about two years and even their closest neighbours were 3 km away.

The couple didn’t know much about agriculture at the time and they had to learn on the field itself.

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“First we had to unlearn everything we had learnt in school because that was completely irrelevant to what we wanted to do. We were just learning to survive in an environment that was completely different from the one we grew up in, to face ourselves and our shortcomings, and to grow enough food just for ourselves – that was a big task the first couple of years,” says Juli, adding that they were fortunate to receive a small loan from their parents to help sustain them since they didn’t have any savings.

Today, they have a farm named Krac-A-Dawna, spread over an area of 40 acres. On it they grow pretty much everything they need to live – grains, oilseeds, eggs, food, fibre, spices, compost, cotton, paddy, millets, sugarcane, vegetables, etc.

juli3 Except for a few “luxury items” like tea, they don’t need much from the outside world. They also cook food using biogas. Three decades on, it’s not just the two of them in the wilderness. Juli and Vivek have two sons, a daughter, and a daughter-in-law.
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Their children were home-schooled and they are also interested in farming and animal husbandry.

juli1 As for sustainability and self-reliance, the couple has been trying marketing in many ways over the years. They used to run a small shop and café in Mysore city, supplied to organic shops all over southern India, started the first farmers’ market in Mysore, organised exhibitions, etc. “I think those experiences helped us develop the idea of what an ideal marketing situation would be for a farm like ours, where all our ethical considerations and the way we want to do business are retained,” says Juli. They are currently in business with one of the branches of Orange County Resorts, and Just Clean Cotton. Ask them what a normal day in their lives looks like, and they burst out laughing. “Every day is a new and special day. There is no normal day. That’s one of the biggest differences between urban living and working on a farm. There are so many factors you have no control over. So you learn to approach each day in an open way,” says Juli.

The family sits down for breakfast at 7am. Priorities for the day are discussed.

julivivek6 Other than the customary things that need attention – like milking the cows, irrigation, cooking, sweeping, cleaning etc. – the rest depends on how the day moves forward. “And it also depends on the weather. That’s the boss we have above our heads and we have to keep the boss in context as well,” adds Vivek.

The farm is nestled in beautiful surroundings and the family also hosts experimental tours for selected agriculture enthusiasts.

julivivek1 As for her advice to others who want to move towards a more healthy form of living like them, Juli says, “Approach the earth with humility and accept that you don’t know much but nature is there to teach you. If you open your mind, it’s endless what you can learn. And it is important for society to understand that the farmer is not illiterate, even if he/she does not know how to read and write. The people who grow your food have immense wisdom and knowledge, and you need to respect and honour that.” Over the years, she has studied and learned all about homeopathy – it is useful both at home and also for the animals. They have dogs, cats, sheep, cows, goats, and chickens.
As for Vivek, his advice to the present generation is just "to slow down, take it easy, and enjoy life because life is all about learning, a few successes and lots of failure."

The couple has received the Krishi Pandit Award given by the Department of Agriculture to individuals for best farming practices.

julivivek5 “People often ask us: wasn’t it difficult? I say no. This is what we wanted to do and wanted to be. It was positive. It taught us. So live today. Live everyday to the fullest! Live dangerously. Learn more. Don’t be afraid of failure,” concludes Vivek.
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You can contact the couple by writing to them at kracfarm@gmail.com.

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TBI Blogs: An Auto Driver’s 19-YO Son Built a Buggy Car From Scratch Using Video Tutorials From the Internet

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Nineteen year old Prem Thakur has no background in engineering. But that didn't stop him from pursuing his dream of building his own buggy car. Prem Thakur zooms across Navi Mumbai’s suburban streets in a swanky looking buggy car. As he pulls into the petrol pump, all the attendants pull out their mobile phones to take pictures of the car. Prem, the 19-year-old creator of the car, beams like a proud father. “I have built this buggy from scratch, using an old sedan’s engine,” he tells Amol Lalzare, the correspondent from Video Volunteers who first reported this story. With limited monetary resources and no background knowledge of engineering, Prem, a commerce student, learnt how to make the buggy car with the help of tutorials from YouTube. Taking lessons from the Youtube Do-It-Yourself (DIY) videos, Prem has put together the entire car from scratch.

“In four months time, I wielded the car from the chassis up and painted it all by myself,” he proudly tells us. The buggy even has a few fancy features, including cool side-blinkers and a music system with USB port.

[caption id="attachment_72153" align="aligncenter" width="500"]The car draws many admirers wherever it goes The car draws many admirers wherever it goes[/caption] Prem’s story is unique because of his family’s support in his ambition. A resident of Kharghar, a suburb in the planned township of Navi Mumbai, Prem comes from a humble background. Even though his father, a rickshaw driver, earns a meagre daily income of Rs. 500-600 ($ 7 – $9), his father was determined to ensure Prem's education. “My father got me a computer when I was 12. Since then, I have used the internet to learn all sorts of things, including how to make a buggy car,” says Prem. A car enthusiast since childhood, when Prem expressed his desire to make a car by himself, his parents could have easily cited monetary difficulties. But instead, the family and his grandmother came together and helped him realise his dream. Putting the buggy together cost the Thakurs almost Rs. 2.5 lakh ($ 3800 approximately).

“Had it not been for my family and the internet, I couldn’t possibly have built this car,” Prem says.

[caption id="attachment_72156" align="aligncenter" width="500"]Prem Thakur Prem Thakur[/caption] While the family has spent a significant amount of their household earnings, on Prem’s dream, the machine's roar and speed prove that their investment in his dreams is not futile.

Prem wants to test his car on a race track one day and someday become an automobile engineer.

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How a Roadside Vendor Is Winning Hearts By Serving Free Food to the Differently-Abled Every Day

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Jogesh Yadav, a 52-year-old food vendor in Allahabad, has been giving free food to the differently-abled people who come to his shop since the last four years.

Jogesh Yadav's son Bobby, who was in Class 9 four years ago, asked his father one day if they could give a dozen or so plates of chhole bhature or sabzi puri to the poor for free every day. Would it make a huge difference in their earnings from the roadside eatery they ran, he asked?

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Even though each plate of food they sell costs Rs. 20, Jogesh was so struck by his son's compassionate request that he decided to start serving free food to the differently-abled who came to his shop. Since the, this little food stall located at the Hanuman Temple crossing in Civil Lines, has become a beacon of hope for the many underprivileged disabled people who can now enjoy a filling meal whenever they visit Jogesh's eatery. The family feels the joy they experience from doing this good work offsets the monetary losses they face on a daily basis.
"There are many differently-abled people who even pay for their food, saying that they can afford it. But I am yet to find an able-bodied person telling me he would pay even if he was getting free food," Jogesh said to The Times of India. "I am fortunate that my son came up with this idea or we would've been deprived of this bliss," he added.

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Meet the Woman who Fought Society and the Legal System to Become India’s First Female Mining Engineer

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Dr. Chandrani Prasad Verma fought tough odds to become India’s first female mining engineer. This is the story of her struggle, passion, dedication, and success. There was a time when virtually every profession in the country was dominated by men. But the winds of change have blown steadily but surely to be more inclusive today. Although there are still some professions that are the exclusive preserve of men, sometimes because of the demand of late hours or the physical strength required to tackle the job, women are beginning to enter these fields as well and break every misconception about their ability to work. Doctors, engineers, politicians, wrestlers, astronauts, and cricketers: name the job and women are everywhere, in every field. But, until this year, there was still one stream of engineering where the law did not allow women to enter: mining engineering. The Mines Act, 1952, said that women would not be allowed to work in any underground mines and would be allowed to work only on opencast mines between 6 am and 7 pm. Also, restrictions under the Coal Mines Regulations, 1957, would be imposed on women seeking admission to mining engineering courses in colleges. In May 2016, the Indian School of Mines, Dhanbad, declared that it will begin admitting female candidates to its mining engineering programmes from the academic year 2016-17 onwards. Several IITs and other prestigious universities in the country also welcomed this move and opened the doors of their mining engineering courses for female students this year. However, there is one woman who did not wait for the system to change. Instead, she fought it tooth and nail to become the first female mining engineer in India way before the rules and regulations on the subject changed.

Dr. Chandrani Prasad Verma, now a Senior Scientist at CSIR - Central Institute of Mining & Fuel Research [CSIR-CIMFR] – became the first female mining engineer in India in the year 1999.

[caption id="attachment_72208" align="aligncenter" width="500"]chandrani1 Dr. Chandrani Prasad Verma - India's first female Mining Engineer[/caption] Chandrani’s father worked as a mining engineer in Western Coalfields Limited, in Chandrapur, Maharashtra. She had always been fascinated by the stories about the mines that her father shared with her. By the time Chandrani was in Class 10, she had made up her mind to pursue a career in mining.
“Once there was a fire inside the mines and my father had to stay in the office for two days. When he came back, he told me how they had handled the situation. Everything seemed so interesting and surprising that I could not wait to work like my father,” recalls Chandrani.
After finishing her schooling in 1992, Chandrani did a diploma course in Mining & Mine Surveying in 1995 from Govt. Polytechnic College, Nagpur. It was obvious that after her diploma she wanted to pursue a Bachelor’s degree in mining. However, to her surprise, no engineering college would grant her admission in mining engineering.
“People kept suggesting to me that I take up courses in computers or IT, which are more women specific. But I would ask them: ‘Who has decided what is woman specific?’ Besides, my family was always by my side as they knew how passionate I was about mining,” says Dr. Chandrani.

Next, Chandrani and her father contacted a lawyer. A petition was filed that there can be no gender discrimination in education. The proceedings took a year and finally, in 1996, Chandrani got admission in the mining engineering course as a ‘special case’.

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“When I went to attend the counselling for my admission in engineering, the professors were shocked to know that I was opting for mining and had ‘wasted’ one year just to do so. They kept insisting that it would be a useless endeavour because I would not get any job after the course. But I just shook my head and asked them to give me admission,” said Chandrani.
Chandrani completed B. E (Mining Engineering) from Ramdeobaba Engineering College, Nagpur, in the first position, with merit, in 1999. She had opened the path for many more girls to follow in her footsteps; after her many girls took up this course and the colleges also did not restrict them.

However, despite being the university topper, Chandrani was not selected for any job during the campus recruitment process, simply because she was a girl.

[caption id="attachment_72210" align="aligncenter" width="500"]chandrani3 Chandrani receiving her PhD Degree from the Director, VNIT[/caption] But her determination to continue down this road did not waver for a second and her spirit remained indomitable. She started working as a lecturer in her college. Simultaneously, she continued on her journey to acquire more degrees in mining. In 2006, she completed her Master’s in Mining Engineering (M.Tech) from Visvesvaraya National Institute of Technology (VNIT), Nagpur. In December 2015, Chandrani completed her PhD on Web Pillar Design in Highwall Mining under the guidance of Dr. N. R. Thote, Professor, Mining Dept., VNIT, and well known Numerical Modeling Expert, Dr. John Loui Porathur, Principal Scientist, CIMFR, Nagpur.

Chandrani got married in 2007 and had a child in 2008, but she incorporated her family life seamlessly with her professional career, never hesitating to take up new challenges at work.

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“Her best quality is that she does not hesitate at all. She is very clear about the fact that she is here to work and she never expects special treatment,” says Dr. Thote, Chandrani’s PhD guide.
Dr. Thote also recalls an incident where Chandrani had to work on the geo-technical testing of around 400 coal samples for her research. Usually, the testing is done by lab technicians who charge money for the same. However, in this case, the lab technicians wanted to charge extra because they did not think Chandrani would be able to manage on her own. But, instead of paying more, Chandrani tied a scarf across her face and entered the lab herself.

Within two months, Chandrani had tested and prepared almost 600 coal samples, all on her own.

[caption id="attachment_72212" align="aligncenter" width="500"]chandrani5 Chandrani working in Rock Mechanics Laboratory[/caption] Chandrani was the only woman candidate when she went for an interview at CSIR - Central Institute of Mining & Fuel Research. It was a walk-in interview and the candidates had to wait until midnight. Most of the members of the interview panel were hesitant to recruit a female as a research fellow in mining, given the fact that she would have to physically enter the underground mines. But one of the interviewers, Dr. Achyuta Krishna Ghosh, insisted that they recruit Chandrani. He had sensed her passion for mining and was impressed with her determination since she had travelled all the way from Nagpur to Dhanbad and then waited until midnight for an interview.

“It is because of Dr. Ghosh and the support of my family that I am a scientist in CSIR today and am living my dream. He has always encouraged me to go for the toughest challenges,” says Chandrani.

[caption id="attachment_72213" align="aligncenter" width="500"]chandrani6 Chandrani with her mentor Dr. A.K Ghosh (Extreme left)[/caption] If proof were needed, Chandrani’s courage and dedication show that women can achieve anything they set their minds to. It is just a matter of time before we see more diamonds like Chandrani shining in the mining industry in India. You can send your wishes to Dr. Chandrani Prasad Verma at chandranidp@gmail.com.

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5 Must-Read Stories of Young Indian Women Who Started Changing Lives While Still in Their Teens

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Across India, young women are increasingly leading and empowering communities through their innovative work. From creating free organic wigs for cancer patients to educating street kids, these confident young ladies are using their courage and creativity to ensure that India sees a brighter future. They may be young, but their passion for making a difference would inspire even the cynics! Here are 5 stories of young Indian women taking chances and changing lives of people near and far. Get ready to be amazed and inspired by these champions of change!

1. Meera Sharma - Off with their tresses, for cancer!

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Meera Sharma runs Tangled, an organisation that provides organic wigs to women fighting cancer. It all started when Meera found out that real hair wigs for cancer patients were prohibitively expensive (as high as Rs. 30,000) and that synthetic wigs were itchy and extremely uncomfortable. As the chairperson of the Rotaract Club of Women's Christian College, Chennai, Meera decided to do something about this. Along with her dedicated team at the club, Meera started by donating her own hair for the cause. Next, they partnered with the salon chain, Green Trends, and a wig-maker, Raj Hair Intl. Pvt. Ltd, who agreed to make natural hair wigs for them at a price of Rs. 4,500 per wig. These wigs are then distributed for free to the underprivileged cancer patients of the Cancer Institute. The cost of wig-making is borne by the sponsors whose generous contributions make this possible. Today, Tangled is working across India to provide free, organic wigs to cancer patients and boost their self-confidence.

2. Anjali Chandrashekhar - When a brush is mightier than the sword!

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An aspiring industrial designer with passion for painting and sculpture, Anjali Chandrashekhar was just 16 when she raised funds for causes such as natural calamities, child abuse, and rehabilitation of underprivileged children through her artistic creations. In 2008, she used her artwork to raise around 3 lakh rupees at an International Diabetes Charity and used that money to provide insulin and medication to many poor diabetic children. She also won the third prize at the United Nations Poster for Peace Contest for her disarmament posters, Break Free and Cutting a Peace Deal. A firm believer in the philosophy that art transcends barriers of age, language and literacy, 22-year-old Anjali has been working silently on her global social project, Picture It, for over a decade. Through it, she has been using her art to raise funds for various health, humanitarian and environmental causes.

3. Avani Singh - A rickshaw of hope!

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A Delhi girl, Avani founded Ummeed, a program that trains women from the slums of Delhi to become taxi and rickshaw (electric rickshaws) drivers, when she was just 17. She started this initiative with a single electric rickshaw, donated by the local manufacturer, Green Wheels. To find a driver, Avani collaborated with the Delhi-based NGO CEQUIN to put out a call for volunteers in the Jamia area of the city. Soon, she had her first e-rickshaw driver, Kohinoor, who was delighted by the opportunity. Today, Ummeed is giving many women a way to earn both a living and a level of physical and social mobility that was previously nearly impossible. Other than training underprivileged women to drive, it also provides and maintains the e-rickshaws.

4. Varsha Varghese - For the love of words!

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It was Varsha Varghese’s love for books and her experience as a teaching volunteer in Make A Difference (MAD) that made her initiate the The Wordsworth Project. Along with college batchmates, Priyanka Roychowdhary and Rahul Sreekumar, Varsha decided to improve language competency in children. The trio firmly believed that since language is the medium through which all subjects are taught, better language skills would directly lead to better learning outcomes. The Wordsworth Project works to create interactive reading spaces in low resource schools and learning centres, by equipping them with books catering specifically to the children’s reading level. Mindful that books alone cannot make language accessible, they have also recruited and trained volunteers who teach kids basic grammar through interactive activities. The volunteers also help map the individual progress of each child’s progress to help the team analyse the outcome of their efforts and take the necessary steps.

5. Rashi Anand - A better childhood for street kids!

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Seeing the plight of children on the streets of Delhi compelled Rashi Anand to make a difference in their lives. Worried about how vulnerable these kids were to exploitation, Rashi set up Lakshyam, an NGO working for street and underprivileged children in Delhi when she was just 18. Her next step was to set up a Toy Library programme that provided pictorial books and educational toys to street kids. Till date, this programme has donated books and toys to over two lakh underprivileged children in India. Today, Lakshyam has established several schools (called Sakshyam) for street kids in the slum areas of Delhi. The organization also conducts workshops with street children under flyovers, in red light areas and at railway stations to provide basic education and create awareness about issues like drug addiction. Thanks to Rashi's efforts, Lakshyam has also expanded its work to states like Jharkhand, Uttarakhand, Tamil Nadu and Karnataka. Most of us nurture a passion but few translate it into action. These 5 young women didn't just dream about making a difference, they also built an effective social venture around a cause they were passionate about. Old or young, these go-getters are an inspiration to us all!
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14 Years after Being Publicly Shamed, Pakistani Gang Rape Survivor Walks the Ramp & Wins Hearts

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On June 22, 2002, in Muzaffargarh district, Pakistan, Mukhtar Mai was dragged into the house of a Mastoi tribesman and was brutally raped by four men. Following this, she was paraded around the streets of her village naked. Fourteen years later, she fearlessly walked the ramp at the Fashion Pakistan Week - 2016. The 44-year-old was dressed in light-green ensemble that was designed by Rozina Munib in the concluding event of the three-day long Fashion Pakistan Week event. The annual event began as a subversive movement in 2009, in opposition to religious fundamentalists or clerics who sought to restrict a woman’s movement and enforce rigid dress codes.

According to reports, Mai chose to use the Fashion Pakistan Week event as a platform to spread the message about the importance of education. She also hopes that this act will help remove the stigma around victims of gender-based violence.

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She told the Associated Press, “I want to be the voice of those women who face circumstances similar to what I did. My message for my sisters is that we aren't weak. We have a heart and a brain, we also think. I ask my sisters to not lose hope in the face of injustice, as we will get justice one day for sure." In 2002, after the gang rape and public humiliation, Mukhtar displayed a similar fighting spirit when she challenged her alleged rapists and tribal council members in Pakistan’s Supreme Court. As a result of her relentless pursuit for justice, fourteen men were put on trial and six were handed the death sentence. But all of them were let out on bail later. Out of Rs. 500,000 she was awarded by the government as compensation, she set up a school in her village, which she thought would be the best way to address gender inequality and discrimination. Her case was covered extensively by international media, which helped her receive more funding and set up two schools. In 2006, she also established the Mukhtar Mai Women’s Shelter Home in Meerwala to give refuge to runaway or homeless women who were survivors of gender-based violence. After walking the ramp, she told the Express Tribune, “All that I do, I do it for my children (at the shelter) and women. This is for them. I can’t do this alone hence I found an anchor in the media to help spread my message.” To know more about her foundation and charity work, visit the Mukhtar Mai Women's Organisation website.

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Here’s a Man Who Runs Half Marathons and Climbs Mountains with Just One Lung!

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Kanishka Lahiri’s right lung had to be removed completely because of cancer. With half the lung capacity of a normal human, he still runs and treks in the mountains. Bangalore-based software professional Kanishka Lahiri had, by the age of 39, run several marathons and ultra-marathons and trekked extensively in the Himalayas. But, in the second half of 2013, Kanishka developed a dry cough. Attributing it to Bangalore weather and pollution, he ignored it. But the cough persisted even when he was away from the city. He went for a running trip to the mountains of Uttarakhand but the exercise proved more strenuous than ever before. Finally, Kanishka decided to visit a doctor. The doctor didn’t suspect anything serious either and put Kanishka on antibiotics. But the cough was unrelenting. Three months into this condition, Kanishka had an X-Ray done and it became clear that he had a patch in the right lung. Was it pneumonia or tuberculosis or Wegener’s Disease? The doctors struggled to diagnose the cause of Kanishka’s worsening health. Medications for all suspected conditions were given but no one really suspected that a person as physically active as Kanishka would have any serious illness. It turned out to be cancer. In the middle of this crisis, Kanishka’s wife delivered a baby boy. The baby was barely two months old when the doctors delivered their verdict for Kanishka – his right lung was severely damaged. He had to have surgery to remove the cancer affecting his lungs. His right lung was removed completely. Post-operative biopsies on the lung tissue confirmed classical Hodgkin’s lymphoma, Stage 4A. He then underwent chemotherapy to salvage the left lung, which had started showing signs of damage. The surgery and the chemo took their toll - Kanishka was on the ventilator and then in the ICU for over six weeks. Thankfully, the bad times began to recede soon after that. Slowly and steadily, Kanishka started recovering. He started learning to breathe and live with a single lung. He started regaining the weight and strength he had lost.

Kanishka says “Medical science played a great part in my recovery but what helped much more was the positive attitude that my family and friends brought to me. My doctor said that I would not just recover but be able to run as well. And I wanted to believe in it and make it happen.”

[caption id="attachment_74219" align="aligncenter" width="1200"]“I did not want my son to have a sick father. I also, wanted running to remain a part of my life.” - Kanishka Lahiri “I did not want my son to have a sick father. I also, wanted running to remain a part of my life.” - Kanishka Lahiri[/caption] Four months after the treatment began, Kanishka started going for walks. Two months later, he began to attempt running. “I started on a very light running routine and slowly started rebuilding strength and endurance,” says Kanishka.

He gradually ramped up to reach milestones of 5k and 10k. And now, two years after his treatment, Kanishka has started running half marathons, that is, 21 kilometres!

[caption id="attachment_74222" align="aligncenter" width="1200"]"Being diagnosed with cancer is not the end of the road. Things have improved dramatically these days in terms of knowledge of the disease and treatment options. I recall my friend telling me to just banish the thought of the movie 'Anand' from my head", says Kanishka Lahiri. "Being diagnosed with cancer is not the end of the road. Things have improved dramatically these days in terms of knowledge of the disease and treatment options. I recall my friend telling me to just banish the thought of the movie 'Anand' from my head", says Kanishka Lahiri.[/caption] “Soon after I was back on my feet, I was yearning to see the mountains again,” says Kanishka, who has restarted his mountain treks. This October, Kanishka scaled a height of 14,000 ft in the Himalayas! Before his illness, Kanishka was a coach at Runner’s High, a community of running enthusiasts in Bangalore. He has restarted his coaching sessions now and regularly trains aspiring runners. You may also like: One Man Sitting In His Room For Years Is Showing The Rest Of The World How To Fight Cancer “None of this was easy. It all happened thanks to the encouragement of my pulmonologist, the team of oncologists, my group of friends and coaches at Runner’s High, and my wife. It was a team effort that put me back on the running track. I’m not able to run as fast as I used to or endure extreme treks with my reduced lung capacity. But I can’t rule out a full marathon or more arduous treks in the future,” says Kanishka, beaming with positivity. You can draw inspiration from Kanishka by writing to him at kanishka.lahiri@gmail.com.

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The Pride of Bhalaswa: The Story of One Girl’s Rise from Destitution to Inspiration

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Forced to relocate with her poor family in a squalid resettlement in north-west Delhi, Pooja Kashyap faced a life of destitution. This is the story of how her grit and determination instead helped her craft a life that inspires others.

Pooja started working the day she completed her higher secondary education. “I had no option but to earn. The entire family of seven was dependent on my mother. She works as a cook in Nizamuddin.” Nizamuddin is at a distance of 27 kms. from Bhalaswa, a resettlement colony in north-west Delhi, where Pooja lives. “She earns Rs. 9,000 a month. It is simply not enough to feed a family of seven, let alone paying [sic] for each of our education. I didn’t want my little siblings to stop going to school. As the eldest daughter, I wanted them to have the basic education I had,” Pooja explains.

On asking what her father did, she takes us back to the days when her family lived in a makeshift settlement (locally known as a ‘juggi’) in Nizamuddin. The family lived there ever since Pooja’s grandparents moved to the city from Uttar Pradesh, in search of work. “I don’t remember my grandparents at all. They passed away when my father was young. When they died, he was in the sixth standard. He quit school and started looking after my grandparents’ vegetable stall in the locality. He married early and continued with the family business till we were asked to leave our home one day,” she narrates. A flyover was coming up, and residents of Nizamuddin’s squatter colonies were given a piece of land for Rs. 7,000 in Bhalaswa. “It looked like an attractive offer at first,” Pooja reminisces, “To have some land of our own for such a little price. We had some savings to pay from. Father was optimistic that he can continue his business even in Bhalaswa. Just before we left Nizamuddin, Father had begun making and selling papad, and it was quite a successful venture. He would make the papad in the morning and sell at India Gate in the evenings. Business would pick up during late evenings and he would return home late in the night.” With the family moving to Bhalaswa, Pooja’s father had to abandon the papad business. The distance was a deterrent. “We had no idea of Bhalaswa. Initially, we were just happy to own a piece of land at such a low cost. The conditions were appalling. There was a huge dumping ground nearby, and the entire area was this vast, marshy, land. But we had no place to go back. We were doomed to live here.”

Pooja was in the third standard when the family moved to Bhalaswa.

[caption id="attachment_73831" align="aligncenter" width="500"]20130220_india_0105-2 Entering Bhalaswa[/caption] Although she could barely make sense of the new development in her life, the first thing she acutely missed was a play space. Meanwhile, her father struggled to find work. He tried running a vegetable stall with his wife’s help. It failed. Their savings ran out. The family of eight was on the brink of a serious crisis. This is when her mother started working in Nizamuddin. She would cook in people’s homes and manage to put together some money to feed her children. Frustrated by repeated failures, Pooja’s father took to tobacco and gambling. Soon after Pooja completed her 12th standard, her father left the family and disappeared. “My elder brother had just finished secondary school. There were no jobs for him. It is here when Santosh bhaiya told me about this vacancy at Magic Bus,” she recalls.

Pooja’s association with the organisation started almost six years ago, when Magic Bus began working with children of Bhalaswa.

[caption id="attachment_73828" align="aligncenter" width="500"]20130220_india2_0356 Bhalaswa[/caption] It was a difficult area – a resettlement colony of migrants facing some of the harshest conditions of living. Children were exposed to an unhygienic environment, and there was an acute lack of basic necessities like clean drinking water, and a space to play and learn. As families struggled to make ends meet, children would be pulled out of school and sent to do odd jobs. “I am grateful to my parents to have never taken me or my siblings off school [sic]. We struggled, but my mother was very clear about never compromising on our education,” she says. Pooja became one of the earliest girls to be selected as a youth leader in her community. “Initially, it didn’t mean anything. I thought it would be an opportunity to get out of my home and do something new. I loved teaching children. When I went through the training and curriculum, I was plumbed [sic]. There were so many things in it even I didn’t know. I was worried I would never be able to teach children. I was so grateful to have Santosh bhaiya guiding me through the entire process.” [caption id="attachment_73827" align="aligncenter" width="500"]3 Pooja during a session[/caption] For Pooja, her proudest moment as a youth leader was when she would lead a group of girls from a minority community in her neighbourhood, who would never be allowed to step out of their homes otherwise. “Ask a girl in Bhalaswa what freedom means, and they would say, to be able to see the world outside their little homes, to be able to make friends without being asked questions about their character. Magic Bus gave us this sense of freedom and purpose,” Pooja points out. Before long, mindsets were shifting at the home front too. “My parents were conservative. While growing up, I and my sisters were not encouraged to interact with people outside our relatives. It was mostly safety that my parents were worried of. After I decided to become a Community Youth Leader and lead a bunch of children, both boys and girls, their reservations gave way. They saw how well-respected I was in the community because of my work,” Pooja explains. [caption id="attachment_73830" align="aligncenter" width="500"]4 Pooja explaining the activity to children[/caption]
“When I see myself now, I am surprised at how confident I have become,” Pooja confides, breaking into a smile.
Four years ago, when Pooja got an opportunity to work, she was thrilled and relieved. “Relieved that the family wouldn’t have to go hungry, and thrilled because it was like working with people I knew and cared for,” she explains. However, she did not get to be the Youth Mentor of Bhalaswa. Instead, she was asked to take charge of Timarpur, 10 kms away from her community.
“I was ready for the challenge,” she says with a certain firmness in her voice, a character trait she feels has guided her through the difficult times in her life.
[caption id="attachment_73832" align="aligncenter" width="500"]1 Pooja and the girls during an activity[/caption] In the last four years, Pooja has worked with 750 children and mentored more than 27 youth leaders in Timarpur. She has also completed her Bachelors in Social Work and has enrolled in a Masters course with IGNOU. She pays for her education and also contributes to the family income. Her father has returned. But a few months ago, his right leg had to be amputated because of gangrene. Pooja and her brother Madan stood by their mother during this entire phase. They continue to do so. Pooja plans to build her career as a development professional. “If you have lived the life of an underprivileged, how can you not work for and with them?” she says, a continuing inspiration for others in similar situations. You can support Magic Bus by making a contribution here or give a missed call at 1800-200-6858 and we will call you back!

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Delhi’s Shahbad Dairy Is Witnessing a Unique Drive for Education. And It’s Led by a 14-Year-Old!

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Shahbad Dairy in Delhi is an area populated mostly by daily wagers and migrant workers, where the focus is always on survival. In this grim reality, a 14-year-old girl is leading the fight for children’s education, breaking gender stereotypes and societal norms along the way. A couple of years ago, a few women discussing a 14-year-old girl’s impending marriage at the community water pump in Delhi’s Shahbad Dairy area were told off by a 12-year-old girl who overheard the conversation. “Don’t you know child marriage is against the law? I will report you to the police,” Tannu warned angrily. Not only did she stop the marriage from taking place, she even ensured that the girl went back to school. [caption id="attachment_74661" align="aligncenter" width="500"]img_20141229_054929 Tannu[/caption] This was two years ago. Tannu today is 14 years old, more mature and calmer, but her steely determination remains intact. She continues to challenge stereotypes, and in doing so, is slowly and gradually changing the mindsets of people in her locality. Tannu is one of the many children who are part of the CRY supported project Saksham in Delhi’s Shahbad Dairy area. A backward area populated mostly by daily wagers and migrant workers, the focus here has always been on survival rather than education for children. The patriarchal mindset is also rampant, relegating women and girls to the role of housemakers.  Though Tannu grew up in Shahbad Dairy, she was fortunate to have parents who encouraged her to dream big, and never let tradition and gender come in the way.
“I am very lucky to have such supportive parents. They always taught me to stand up for what is right, and let me do whatever I wanted to. Not many children in my locality get this kind of support from their parents, and this very thought encourages me to do something for the betterment of others,” says a beaming Tannu.
A few months ago, while coming back from school, Tannu noticed a few boys fighting amongst themselves. Fearing that the fight would escalate, she approached them and sorted out their fight. Later, on her way home, she struck a conversation with two boys from the group.

One boy said that he had never gone to school, like many of his friends, and the other one dropped out since he could not cope up with studies.  Watching TV and playing games made up most their days now.

[caption id="attachment_74658" align="aligncenter" width="500"]dsc00050 Reaching out to children through varied mediums[/caption] Tannu remembered her parents’ words about the importance of education, and felt very uncomfortable after the conversation. She felt a strong urge to do something for children who were not getting an opportunity to study. Tannu immediately gathered her friends, and together they decided to teach these children after school hours. She says, “When we discussed our idea with CRY and Saksham members, they were instantly supportive, and also gave us space at the Centre for the classes. Since we all come to the Centre almost every day after school to either study or rehearse for activities, bringing these children here would open a different new world to them.” Their first task was to get details of children, so the group of eight friends went around the locality and began identifying children who had never gone to school, or who had dropped out because of various reasons. They also came across many school-going children who were weak in a few subjects but could not afford to pay for tuition classes, and decided to take them in. Once they had the details in hand, the group’s next task was to go door to door and convince both the children as well as their parents about the importance of these classes.
“It was not easy explaining the importance of education to the elders.  While a few parents shooed us away saying that there is no need for their children to go to school, there were many who patiently listened to us and promised to give it a thought,” says Tannu’s friend and group member Nindi.
It took a few weeks for the group to win the confidence of the parents, and by the end of it there were 25 children who were willing to learn from them. “That was a day of mixed feelings for all of us. While we were excited that our plan would finally materialize, we were also extremely nervous. Since we had to put in a lot of effort to convince the parents, we could not afford to let them down,” says Tannu.

Thus these eight friends began a journey which turned out to be more enriching than they could have imagined.

[caption id="attachment_74659" align="aligncenter" width="500"]img_2164 Her class in progress[/caption] Nindi continues, “We spent the first few days getting the children comfortable with us and the surroundings. We taught numbers and alphabets to those who had never gone to school, and age-specific courses to the ones who had dropped out. We often played word games, and conducted group activities and competitions to keep them interested in studies. Getting the children to concentrate and attend the classes regularly was a challenge we faced from time to time.” Despite the many challenges, the group managed to conduct these classes for several months. Over time, the children also started showing a lot of interest in learning new things. Weak students managed to score better in their exams. Meeting everyday and studying together also brought the children closer to each other. They started to share their personal lives, discuss their problems, or simply do fun things together.
“Over time, we became like a small family. The happiest day for us was when three students who had previously dropped out of school decided to continue their formal education and took admission in nearby schools. We celebrated that day by distributing sweets and watching a movie”, says Tannu proudly.
The other children meanwhile continued to do well, and many of them are also planning to start their schooling. The success of the initiative prompted CRY and Saksham to take it forward. Volunteers now visit the Centre every weekend to regularly teach out-of-school and school-going children. There has been a good response to these classes, with children from neighboring villages joining in as well.
“I am glad I could use my knowledge to help others. We were all overjoyed when our small initiative was made into a permanent activity at the Centre.  So many children benefit from it now. This only encourages me to keep doing more such work,” says Tannu with a sense of responsibility that belies her age.
[caption id="attachment_74660" align="aligncenter" width="500"]img_2170 Wind beneath the wings[/caption] Tannu reveals that she wants to be a professional singer, and often breaks into song. She regularly takes part in local singing competitions, and has also won a few prizes for the same. Tannu is currently studying in Standard X, and actively involved in the children’s collective at the center. The collective continues to empower children and spread awareness about child rights in the neighbourhood.

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